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“ALL YOU NEED IN LIFE IS LOVE”

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“ALL YOU NEED IN LIFE IS LOVE” and I stand by it!

I have heard many people say that ‘no, love is not what you need, love doesn’t help you survive, it doesn’t pay your bills, etc.’

Do you agree? Atleast I don’t.

Love, helps you stay sane in times of crisis because you know there is someone you can pour your heart to, someone is there to hug you and tell you that every storm ends with a bright day. Love makes you strong, it encourages you to follow your dreams, it stands by you on the bumpy roads of achieving your dreams.

Love doesn’t pay your bills but it makes you realise your worth and what you are made of, which pushes you forward, nearer to success. It makes you feel complete!

It may be wife-love, husband-love, boyfriend-love, girlfriend-love, friend-love, mother-love, child-love, father-love, any-love! JUST UNCONDITIONAL LOVE! 

They may not understand what you are going through, why you are doing a certain thing, but they will always be there to support you and guide you!

Love is not materialistic, you can not compare it to mere things like paying bills, it is felt with all 5 senses!

Thank You! ❤

 

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5 REASONS WHY HAVING A GUY BEST FRIEND IS AMAZING…!

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Well having a guy best friend is really fun and amazing, and to be frank this is something many people can relate to. So without saying anything further here are 5 reasons why having a guy friend is amazing,

  1. Egos don’t clash. A guy’s ego clashes with his guy friend, a girl’s ego clashes with her girl friend but in case of a guy-gal friend, egos rarely clash. Continuing  from that, fights are never THAT serious (most of them), but even if they are serious, things solve pretty easily as there is no ego problem as compared to a fight with one of your female friends.
  2. A guy friend is the best person to discuss about your boy friend problems as he will be able to tell you what’s going in his mind, I mean being a guy they would think similarly.
  3. Talking is easier. You aren’t continuing bitching about someone like gal friends do, which leads to mental peace (I mean I end up having a headache if I continue bitching for a long time, I don’t like it at all!).
  4. You don’t have to give him gifts, even if it is his birthday (well its true in my case).
  5. You can discuss about sex with him freely. Ask queries about things related to it. Its like seeing sex by a guy’s point of view.

“A good friend will come and bail you out of jail, but a best friend will be sitting next to you saying, ‘Damn, that was fun’!”
―     Kate Angell,     Curveball

THANK YOU…!! ❤

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“Actually, I think it’s the opposite.  We know each other so well there isn’t anything left to say.  Sometimes it’s nice just sitting here with you all, thinking.  It’s only best friends who can be comfortable with silence, wouldn’t you say?”
―     Benjamin Wood,     The Bellwether Revivals

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“You are my best friend as well as my lover, and I do not know which side of you I enjoy the most. I treasure each side, just as I have treasured our life together.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook

A WAY TO MAKE YOUR GIRL SMILE…

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This video was made by a really sweet friend of mine for his girlfriend who was really very angry with him. They have been in a relationship for more than 2 years, which is a really long time.
Well I actually want to say is that this is a really good way to propose or make you girl smile if she is angry or maybe even surprise her on her birthday maybe. Not only for the guys, girls can also do it for their man (guys like computer savvy girls 😉 ). Why only for your partner, it would be amazing to surprise your father or mother on their birthday on father/mother’s day and maybe even for a close friend of yours!
THANK YOU! ❤

LOVE & RESPECT, NOT MEANT FOR FAT PEOPLE?

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I am a fat person, all my life I have been teased about it, now its a part of life and I am used to it. Though I never understood why. Aren’t we a part of society too? Why are we neglected? Small children just come to you and call you “fatty” and run off. I used to love children but now I shy away from them. Making friends, for us is a task, its never easy. All our lives we are called names, so how can you expect us to have the guts to even go to a random strange and say “hi”. Our best friend in middle school is either reading or playing pc games, etc. because no one would talk to us. In high school and college we see people in relationships, dating each other and we are just siting there thinking ‘I wish that was me!’. Guys we have feelings too!! Slim people talking to each other, walking around is normal but if a fat person talking to a person of the opposite gender, everyone loses their minds. Now they will irritate you by saying “hey are you guys dating?” even if they know we aren’t. We are the first ones to be friend zoned or brother/sister zoned! Why? I think people just see us like animals and not human beings. If you open youtube and just write fat people, the suggestions you would see is ‘fat people dancing’, ‘fat people funny’, ‘fat people falling’ , etc. I mean it is just pathetic! Are we some source of entertainment for the so called slim and cool people? If we start getting close to a person of the opposite sex they start maintaining a distance even if all we want is friendship!

STOP IT! WE ARE HUMANS! WE HAVE FEELING, RESPECT THEM! WE ARE NOT A SOURCE OF ENTERTAINMENT! WE HAVE DIGNITY AND SELF RESPECT! IF YOU DON’T WANT TO TALK TO US DON’T, JUST DON’T MAKE FUN OF US!

We may seem like a sport if you tease us but you don’t know that it ruins our whole week or even a whole month. It depresses us a lot. For you it may be fun but just imagine what we have to go through!

THANK YOU!

HOW TO KNOW YOUR FRIENDZONED…..(FOR BOYS)

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I have done a ‘HOW TO KNOW YOUR FRIENDZONED FOR GIRLS’ previously so I thought lets do a ‘HOW TO KNOW YOUR FRIENDZONED FOR BOYS’. So here are 5 ways to tell if your friendzoned –

  1. If she calls you a brother, a close friend or bestfriend, then my friend your friendzoned.
  2. If she doesn’t flirt with you and doesn’t reciprocate when your trying to flirt, then my friend your friendzoned.
  3. If she tells you about her relationship problems or tells you about what she truly feels about  guy, like she is talking to one of her girl friends, then my friend your friendzoned.
  4. If she doesn’t make any efforts to impress you and doesn’t dress for you,then my friend your friendzoned.
  5. If she says “I never want to lose you as a friend”, then my friend your friendzoned.

What I would suggest is that just tell her about your feelings, if she says no don’t worry as, if your friendship is strong enough you guys would get over it and if it isn’t it was never worth it.

THANK YOU! ❤

WHY IS FRIENDSHIP IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP…

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Friendship is very important in any relationship. What does friendship mean? Well everyone has different perspectives. According to me friendship means to know the person in and out thoroughly, to understand the person and to just know what the person is feeling at any particular time, its just a very comfortable space, which are all very important components of a relationship. Its easier to share stuff to your friend, it makes the communication easy. Once your in that comfortable space you don’t have to be self conscience and feel free to wear or do whatever you want to. You start giving each other space and get to explore the other side of them as so far you only knew the lover part of them.  To know all the likes and dislikes of that person is not important nor remembering all details is but just understanding them is. Be a friend to your partner and see how the relationship flourishes.

THANK YOU! ❤

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“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche

WHY YOU SHOULDN’T DATE A MAN OLDER TO YOU

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A female according to me should not date a man who is older to her and by older I don’t mean 2 or 3 years I mean an age gap of more than 5 years. Friendship is really important for a relationship, and you just can’t be a ‘FRIEND’ with someone who is older to you e.g. you are 25 so you just can’t be friends with a man of the age of 35. The maturity levels are different, he would always take you lightly.
It won’t be a relationship of equals as he would be dominating. The mind set changes, both of you would think differently, see the world differently and this would make understanding one another difficult, which is an essential part of any healthy relationship. This can also lead to conflicts, arguments and maybe even abuse which is not a good sign. He would always think that your behaviour is childish. He might not even ask for your advice while making decisions.
Hence my friends I advice you not to date a man older to you.

THANK YOU!! ❤